somesaypip

Life for an Aussie chick in North West Cambodia. Local work in sports, education and development.

Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Two Doors Down

she died on Sunday morning
for three days and nights
they broadcast their lament
loudspeaker strapped to a palm tree
two doors down from here

relatives and neighbours
met, sat, ate, drank and talked
under the temporary canopy
holding the gestures of sympathy
fitting for such a loss

my culture is different
we do grief in a 1-hour service
hiding behind our sunglasses
unsure of what to say
hoping maybe tomorrow we'll feel better

I'd rather she lived-
surely even a weak life beats the best farewell?
I've still got lots to say
about life eternal and healing in this one
but right now her body is gone and it's quiet

4 Comments:

  • At 4:47 am , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    Who died Pip? Hope you're ok without Mary!! You got your ticket home yet?

    Naomi

     
  • At 9:14 pm , Blogger gretchen said...

    pip~ you are inspiring! i LOVE reading your blogs :)

     
  • At 9:34 pm , Blogger pip said...

    hey omi- just sent you an email about the neighbourhood news. yeah, it is different to be home alone but so far so good (only 24 hours so far!!)
    haven't got my ticket home yet but meetings are starting to get booked in so I know where I will be on may 4 2008. weird.

    thanks gretchen : ) great dinner tonight...happy tummy!

     
  • At 7:32 pm , Blogger Cal said...

    I went to an open casket wake earlier this year (white, English). Had had I guess the usual reaction of 'oh that's weird' when I heard about it but actually it was amazing. They basically just had the coffin in the living room for the afternoon and evening and the door open to anyone who wanted to come in (and this in dodgy East London just off 'Murder Mile'). At various intervals there was singing. A computer screen flipped up picture of her throughout her life and with her family.

    Amazing experience.

     

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