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Wednesday, March 07, 2012

XP? No thanks!

A group named Extreme Prophets (XP) have started to visit Poipet. I wish they wouldn't send teams. I'm usually an advocate for people coming short term or long term but in this case I say, 'Please don't come.'

The promo video concerns me (open page and scroll down). The opening sentence begins with the emotive but vague proposition, 'Sexual addiction is spreading in viral proportions globally and internet pornography is fueling it.' In the first minute, King uses the words: 'sex addicts', 'sex tourism', 'sex auctions', 'pedophiles', 'rape', 'drugged' and 'smuggled' thrown together in a way that suggests that she is going to talk about child sex trafficking but without much understanding of the issue at all.

The problem isn't clear and the proposed solution to build safe houses doesn't fit the problem. The Cambodian government wants to close orphanages. There is a move away from institutions to community based care for children in need. Why re-label the same orphanage idea as safe houses if the government doesn't want it? Secondly, these safe houses are also meant to be for children 'at risk'. What does this mean? I wonder if there are any children who are not, in some degree, 'at risk' simply by living in Poipet?

The XP team gives a long lists of dates and encourages people to come to visit for a week. I am concerned about the constant flow of Westerners seeing the same programs with the same people, walking the same streets, taking the same photos. The promo promises that in one week participants can 'care and rescue'. Really? A tourist who drops in for a few days without speaking the language, understanding the culture or having wrestled with the complicated issues of migration, trafficking and child protection is going to rescue Cambodian children? I doubt it.

I also wonder about the screening and training for people who sign up for these teams? I fear that these teams could do more harm than good.

XP: I appreciate your passion and your heart. However, please don't send your teams.

19 Comments:

  • At 10:11 pm , Blogger Whitney @ Journey Mercies said...

    Good word, Pip. Honestly, this is frightening. Not really looking forward to how it pans out but praying that only what God wants done happens.

     
  • At 7:38 am , Anonymous Anonymous said...

    I appreciate your comments Pip. I am thankful you are speaking up. Let us pray for the wisdom in these matters, and that the Lord Jesus is honored if we involve ourselves overseas.

     
  • At 9:12 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    On another note, Pip, I’ll say to you the same thing I said face-to-face with Ms. King: If there is not a life-giving local church in Poipet that reaches the youth, the lost and provides training and discipleship to believers, all of your work as well as Ms. King’s and any other worker in Poipet will fade away – it will not last. Jesus said He would build His Church and the Gates of Hell will not prevail against it. He did not say He would build his NGO or para-church ministry, but His Church, and the context of the New Testament makes it clear He’s referring to the Local Church Gathered, not the universal body of believers. After talking to who’s who in Poipet and throughout Cambodia I’ve concluded that there is not a life-giving church in Poipet. There are small cell groups that meet occasionally and some traditional churches, but not the kind of church that will receive the people ministered to and help them work through their issues and become a threat to the devil in Banteay Mean Chey Province. I will be coming up on a monthly basis for the remainder of the year to do “Leadership Encouragement Seminars” and a Cambodian-Expat Prayer Meeting to bring interdenominational Christians together with the hopes of adding strength to existing church groups and hopefully seeing 2-3 more churches planted by early next year. A great place for all the youth you are reaching out to to discover true life in Christ. I hope you’ll join us in this ecumenical effort. 25 April, 9 AM – 12 PM Seminar, 3- 4:30 PM Prayer Meeting, both held in the Conference Room at the Destiny Café.

    Bless you in your efforts to reach people of Christ, Pip. My observations are my own and do not represent Patricia King, XP Missions, Operation Justice and their staff. I have written them as I understand them from internet research, emails and personal conversations.

     
  • At 9:13 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    The following is a brief summary of what an XP Missions Team does with their 3-4 teams that come per year: (the name of the mission is actually Operation Justice, as they seek to help bring God’s justice to Cambodia)
    • Prayer, evangelism, build capacity of Khmer Staff
    • They make visits to brothels, slums, villages and border areas to pray, share the Gospel and bring awareness of human trafficking
    • They spoke with a local NGO leader about the above outreaches who gave them his blessing.
    • They support certain projects locally and visit those project and villages, such as a laundry business providing income for 4-5 families as well as a beauty salon where trafficked women will have the opportunity to learn a legitimate skill, a coffee shop, bakery and jewelry store. (All this sounds like a plan to me!)
    • The purpose of visiting the brothels is to build relationships. One of the on-ground staff in Poipet has been doing the nails of brothel girls regularly, just showing this act of kindness in Jesus’ name and waiting to see what happens. Some of the girls have showed an interest in receiving Christ. If the girls are able to leave the brothel a place to stay and job skills are set up for them. (There is a ministry in Phnom Penh called Precious Women who does something similar every-other Friday night.)

    You ask about the screening and training the team members have; I really can’t speak to that – probably about as much as the hundreds of other teams that come through Cambodia – maybe more.

    Anyway, Pip, I have to disagree with your attack on XP Missions. Again, if you have a personal dislike for Ms. King and her ministry, that’s one thing, but I think the teams that come into Poipet and the team she has on the ground are involved in some worthwhile projects. However, we both know that no ministry is perfect. I know flaws in ministries in Poipet and around Cambodia as you do. We all have great aspirations but getting them to work smoothly on the ground is another thing.

     
  • At 9:14 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    April 10, 2012

    Hi, Pip. I think you’ll remember meeting me a couple months ago in Poipet. Your insights into life in the area were helpful. Someone brought to my attention your blog post about XP Missions and I felt that since I have some experience with Patricia King and XP Missions I should offer a rebuttal. Please don’t take my responses below as an attack against you but I felt that since you made your perspective very direct, clear and public on the internet your readers should at least hear another side to the story.

    My first thought is that you either dislike Patricia King and/or her ministry, or you misunderstand what they are doing. If you don’t like her, I’m sure you wouldn’t be the first to dislike Ms. King. However, if you are misinformed about their work and intentions I wanted to offer what I’ve heard from her personally, her staff in Poipet and from the same video clip that you viewed.

     
  • At 9:14 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    1. Regarding her introductory statements, I believe she is absolutely correct. Sexual addiction is spreading virally and it’s fueled by pornography – true. Her further descriptions of sex auctions, pedophiles, rape, drugged, etc. describe accurately what can happen and what does happen to many Cambodian boys and girls and women and young men who enter Thailand through Poipet. I’ve heard heartbreaking testimonies with my own ears of exactly this happen. Ms. King describes it accurately. Whether or not she has understanding of sex-trafficking is a matter of opinion. Her ministry has been working in Poipet for the last several years, collaborating with already established NGOs who have been addressing the issue for many years. She is also in personal consultation with the premier authority on the issue, Mr. Glenn Miles who lives in Phnom Penh. I’ve seen personal emails between the two of them where Mr. Miles has made suggestions regarding some of her activities which Ms. King has graciously welcomed. In fact they will be meeting in Phnom Penh for further discussion and input in May 2012. So I would say she knows at least some about the issue and has been seeking advice from those intimately involved.

    2. In your third paragraph you address Safe Houses as if they were orphanages. I’ve personally seen a Safe House sponsored by XP Missions. A Safe House is exactly what the government wants – children at risk staying with a family. XP Missions is partnering with a well-established NGO in Poipet with the goal of having a Safe House in every village along the Cambodian-Thai Border. The Safe House is a family that accepts children who have been trafficked or at risk of being trafficked on a temporary basis, not a permanent orphanage situation. Not only that, the Safe House Family educates villagers on the threats of human trafficking and acts as “Neighborhood Watch” in the community. It sounds like a good idea to me, worthy of support. Regarding the term “children-at-risk”, our church is the largest church in Cambodia, some 1,500 ministered to throughout the week. One of the ministries we’ve had for more than seven years is a Children-at-Risk Ministry. Children are at risk of malnutrition, poor health, being sold by their parents or abandoned because of poverty. You’re probably correct that many of the children in Poipet are at risk, but there is a recognized class of children that are truly “at risk”. Our ministry supports these children for three years (180 of them at present). They live in families and we insure they have proper nutrition, school clothes and school fees and at the end of three years we try to have a micro-business to help the family stay self-supporting. We’ve graduated more than 100 children so far. According to the video clip XP Missions is supporting these children in a similar way – I say more power to them! We have proven, positive results.

     
  • At 9:15 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    3. In your fourth paragraph you address the issue of teams. I’m really amazed at the number of short-term teams who pass through Cambodia and even Poipet regularly. In referring to teams do you also consider the teams that come through from Samaritan’s Purse and the Cambodian Hope Organization, as well as the YWAM Teams that come up from Battambang on a monthly basis? I’ve lived in Cambodia for 17 years, with a 5-year absence. Our ministry covers many provinces in Cambodia in a variety of different church-related and humanitarian-related ways (www.cambodiaoutreach.org) . We have had many teams come and go. You’re right, some teams actually do very little, but on the other hand, many are quite effective and in the early days we built our ministry on using short-term teams to help build capacity in Cambodians. If nothing else, the prayer that goes up, the love that is showed and the awareness given to team members is a very positive result. We’ve also had several who have visited on short-term teams to return as staff, serving the people of Cambodia for years. I’m supportive of short-term teams and encourage strategic use of their gifts and abilities. You and I know that the actual rescuing of a child – rushing into a brothel, grabbing a child and running out – will likely not occur – XP Ministries does not do that – but the prayers, the giving and the material resources poured into the community to build strong, healthy families and the awareness brought, does in fact rescue a child from being trafficked.

     
  • At 9:16 pm , Blogger McCaulBlog said...

    Sorry about the disjointed reply. It was too long for your blog and I had to paste it in pieces. It didn't come out in the order I wrote it.

    Chuck

     
  • At 12:37 pm , Blogger Pip said...

    Hi Chuck,
    Thanks for your comments. Maybe we need to agree to disagree. I respect your experience in Cambodia and, having lived here for seven years (four years in Poipet) I don't see things the same way.

     
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